Shamed for showing tits and ass

I had several topics to write about in my Shame Busters blog today but when the following story showed up on Huffington Post it rose to the top of the list.

teacher-baeA black female educator, referred to as ‘TeacherBae,’ was criticized for wearing a dress that showed off too many curves of her body. When I was four years old and living with my father’s grandparents while my mother searched for a new husband, I was enthralled by the curves her body which were amply displayed in the white knit dress she wore when she came by to make sure I was being taken care of before she went out on a date to find me a “new” father. I can only recall seeing my father once or twice so my mother was everything to me. I didn’t know why she wore that dress but I liked the way she looked when she wore it. I had no idea that she wanted to look “sexy,” I didn’t even know what sex was. I was taught that the stork brought babies and left them atop the chimney when a family wanted a baby. But the attraction of her curves never left me. I was very attracted to girls and curious about how they were different, devising little tricks to see what their “sprinklers” looked like, but this and the ignorance about why my mother had curves instilled a neurotic fear of woman that took me far into adulthood before I could come to grips with it. In fact, to some degree, it still hangs on today. It’s the underlining theme of my memoir “Take Your Shame And Shove It.”

Religion, from the time of Adam and Eve, teaches that because Eve ate an apple off of a forbidden tree, we became sinful and our bodies shameful. To please ‘the desert god’ our bodies had to be covered and women from that time on, would bear the brunt of this infraction for the rest of time. It’s why, in a strong Christian nation like America, there is so much resistance to accepting Hillary Clinton as a leader. Her ilk got us kicked out of the ‘Garden of Eden.’

It should be obvious why women have curves but to some it apparently isn’t. Why do wide curvy hips and a big fleshy butt attract human men? Other animals aren’t drawn to those unique human attributes, Like all animals, we survive by reproducing and behind that fleshy butt is an incubator filled with eggs – eggs waiting to be fertilized. All female animals give off a signal when they are ready for fertilization, in dogs it’d an odor that says I’m in heat, in some birds it’s a display of feathers. We humans are visual, and just seeing a woman’s curves sends the signal. There’s eggs in them thar hills. The big breasts say that if a child is the result, there will be plenty of food to feed it until it can provide for itself. Both men and women, but mostly men, retain this attraction for breasts long into adulthood. It was their first security blanket. That primal security never leaves. It probably explains why we call each other baby or babe. Almost all ‘pop’ music is if you think about it, a call that it’s time to fertilize.

So complaining that ‘TeacherBae’ had curves is ludicrous but humans are ludicrous even to the point of neurotic madness. Fundamental religions who thinking that finding ‘god’ is the purpose of life, cover their woman in sacks and hoods to hide their sexuality. To them the joys of life are just an obstacle put there by a devil. Currently the worse victims of this madness are the radical Islamists, but the Catholics, Hindus, Jews and Mormons and too many others to mention, are not that far behind. However, seeing how many comments were made in support of ‘TeacherBae’ shows that there is hope and we are finally headed in the right direction.

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